Why don't you stay put and you look for a lodger? A nice quiet female who could be a positive influence on your D. Make H be the one to move - if he has the balls. Next time he starts a convo like that try and tell him you are going to place an advert; even if nothing comes of it, getting some responses/ applicants might just put the wind up him and it may well offer you the back up plan you need.
(((((((((HUGS)))))))))
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
