Yes, you are right, LN. Detach, detach, detach. But still let her know I'm still here, from time to time. No R talk. Space. Initiate contact rarely. Validate. Agree. Yes, W, I understand why you would feel that way.

I know the drill, now let's see if I can do it \:\)

Had a great online chat with my son (25 yrs) tonight...I don't know how we raised such an awesome, grounded and aware kid, but he is actually giving me advice. And it's good advice. He of course is not choosing sides because there isn't a side to choose - nobody's "wrong" here.

Our 22yr old daughter just wants Mom and Dad back together again.

Our friends are very supportive of both of us.

It's so great that we have all these awesome people and their love surrounding us.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!