Can guilt be an ally in this situation? ======================================== no, guilt is a lousy excuse to do anything, ask my H, not able to quit it with H because of guilt, hiding things for me so I wouldn't feel bad, didnt' want to feel guilty of hurting my feelings (like lying to me wouldnt' hurt me!) I've seen your posts here and there, I think you are a great guy and it saddens me to ready things dont' look so good right now. Will keep you in my prayers)))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.