Lor,

I hate to even say it but IMHO it's way too soon. She's having a moment of regret but as soon as she changes her mind and wants to stay and work on the M she will revert to "the ice man cometh". Seriously. Listen to her, validate her feelings, don't make any assumptions and just watch her carefully.

I wouldn't say it's impossible, just improbable. I'll be praying for your sake and the sake of your children that she really is seeing the light.

Take care!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!