Hanging on to what I believe in!

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Thanks T: I've enjoyed reading your posts to others as well...it sounds like you are doing a great job with the DBing and you always offer such great advice to others!

Well, H has moved back into the guest room for now....so he lasted two whole days! Woo hoo!! Now he says...he still wants to work on us....but he needs time alone too. And what is he supposed to do about those feelings he has for the MOW? (supposedly it is over...he claims it is completely over...but still they talk on the phone?) But he just can't figure out what to do with those feelings...even though he said Friday that he knows the feelings are real. ????????? He says that I think he should just forget about em.....although I did not say that...

I told him his feelings are important and he needs to face them head on to get a handle on things.....he hears...you just want me to make you happy even if it means I can't be.... I don't know where he comes up with this stuff....he twists everything around and drives me crazy.

I knew Friday he wasn't done cooking....it's still hard to face it, but at least I didn't allow him to pull the rug out from under me again. I'm getting better at this!

BA