You are right, LWB. He is a married man who won't look in the mirror and see who he is. He can't have it both ways. He can't be married and dating/free. He is asking for the treatment that you are giving him. (Actually worse, you are so sweet, he deserves much worse.) Too bad we can't fix up some of the shrew-type wives from this board with the self-absorbed, cheating husbands. Kind of like a scene from "No Exit" by Sartre.
