sara, he won't 'give up' his night outs at his favorite bar, and I refuse to go there (where he dated OW), nor has he invited me. If I made plans for us on the weekend, I don't even know if he would go. So, I decided to not stay home anymore, and I get a sitter and go out. Sometimes by myself, sometimes with friends. He once agreed to stay home one night so I could go out and the first week, he totally bailed on me, so now I just hire a sitter and don't even ask.
He doesn't want to go out with me on the weekends. Honestly I believe he loves his freedom too much when he is out.
