An affair to get back at an affair?

[LR on Wheels]

I will tell you that it doesnt solve anything. Cause now I am no better than my H. I always thought of myself as a non-vindictive person and have even been told by people "I would love to have an ex-wife like you." But now I stooped to his level and now I feel worse about myself than he had already made me feel after his many A's. If you can avoid putting yourself in that situation do. I am not saying don't go out with some girlfriends and flirt a little cause it does make ya feel good about yourself but let it end there.