There is nothing much I can add, fyremn, that hasn't already been said about MLC being a long ride but that you are in good company. Imageer has given you excellent links. My wife and I were always best friends as well. My kids are still young but my wife has a tendency to project the future and she sees herself as no longer needed. She missed out on life, as she sees it, and is now on her own.

Your wife may be going through similar feelings. As Imageer said, this is your wifes journey and she must work through this on her own, as painful as that may be.

This is the part where loving unconditionally is put to the test.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God