Hi Brit. I don't think you should bail wife out w/ the retainer. However, I don't know how you should tell her that. What about her family? Can't they help her?

Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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