Peicing hurts like hell and is harder than...

[LoginName]

Cat,
Thanks for sharing and the kind words.

I'll keep posting. I'll post positive things as well as any lingering fears or problems.

what do you think? If things keep going well for a year, can I consider my D busted?

[LoginName]

Thanks Deauxlie,

I share many of your feelings. I'm afraid a song will remind her of OM. Being physical again has been hard. But like you said, I'm not the first man she was ever with - I wait - I was! Ha.

But seriously, if I were single now, almost any woman I would date would have had other relationships. They're in the past and it's silly to be jealous. This one is a little more recent and hurts a little more, but still, in a way, she just used to date someone before she met me (this time).

I'm 99% sure my W's A is over. I also believe the OM would be an idiot not to try to communicate with her. He knew he had a good thing. I'm just a little nervouse of that happening. but like y'all have adviced me, if it does, it does, deal with it then.

[cat03]

I think so, I pray for it to be, I'd miss you like heck but it will be a great day when you no longer feel you need to be here))))))))))

[Aud31]

LN--thanks for posting all this, it's really timely for me. I appreciate your wisdom and perspective.

I've been struggling with the apparent lack of consequences in H's life in the aftermath of the ugliness. I think it's important to remember that there is no possible way for us to know what is in another's heart beyond watching their actions and trying to keep the lines of communication open. I commend you on how you handled your sitch.

I need to go sort this out on my own thread...