fyremn, sorry to see you here but you will find many great people her and a lot of support.
It does sound like MLC and if it is based on what you say, something that you have to realize is that this is not about you. It is about her. I'm sorry to say but prepare yourself for a long ride.
There are a bunch of resources at the top of this forum. I recommend that you read them. However, don't pay attention to the time line listed. This can vary widely. This is also a link to another site that deals specifically with women in MLC.
