see, MM, our sitches aren't so bad (even if it hurts like hell). Now really start detaching. Don't think about her all day. Don't email her. You can respond if she emails you, but don't initiate.
It may seem wrong. She says ILY. You should push now to solve the problem, resolve the issues.
It doesn't work that way. She really needs the space. Give it to her. She needs time. Give it to her. And use that time for yourself so it's not wasted.
I've read too many sitches, and I've been through enough myself, to tell you this is true. Detach, for her and yourself. Back off. Give her space. If you give her too mcuh, she'll let you know (don't worry, you won't give her too much)
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread