Well, at least you tried to figure out the root of the problem. You know, if you have no plans on getting married or having kids, and you're happy - then GO FOR IT! But my advice would be to not have kids. Only b/c if you do decide that you want to be in a sexual relationship, it will be extremely hard on the kids. I decided to forgo the kid thing until we figure out what was going on, and didn't realize that I was pregs at the time. So, now I feel somewhat "trapped" into the relationship. I don't want my son to have a broken family just b/c my H does and I see what he goes/went through. I just don't want to inflict that pain on my son. So, I REALLY want to make it work - but sometimes it feels hopeless.
Look at it this way though (there is a bright side to every turd), at least your not one of those couples who's R revolves around sex. I always wondered what would happen to those couples when sex is no longer an option. At that time, it's the conversation and enjoying each other's company that you need to make it work!
Kellie ------ Me - 27 H - 31 S - born 8/18/2007 Married - 4/24/2005 Together - 7/03/2002
