Why the doubts regarding going on vacation together?

(I'm not disagreeing or agreeing-- just curious what pitfalls you might be seeing.)

I see that you have an update on your thread- I'll go check it out.
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Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing