cagz,

I know it is hard. Yes, you deserve better. I want my ex back but only if he changes and repents. Sometimes I am hopeful, other times I am not.

I admire the people on this board who have taken their MlC'er back and found forgiveness. I am not so sure I would do very good. I would want answers and I think I might remind them of what they did too often.

Hang in there Cagz. It has to play out.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11