respond or stay still?

[heartbreak2]

ACJ

I didn't even imagine going with him ....
never even crossed my mind.

I just felt that he should have had the decency to call me
and tell me what was going on and that he was going.

my kids are 18 and 21 and would not have gone if he asked them to most likely for they don't like this aunt she has never really acknowledged that they exist ever.

This is just the icing on the cake.. for she is playing the role of his wife and we are not even close to being D yet.

I decided today I will not call him or txt him or email him and if he contacts me I am going to ignore him for a while.
It is time for him to feel what it is like when no one talks to him.

Time for him to wonder..

I was also told today that my L can request the video tapes from Hooters for the night that we know the 2 of them were there with guys from work.. that was is amazing.. short leash he is wearing she was the only woman to go.

I am upset iwth him and the fact that his L wrote a settlement that got him out of paying the kids health ins. and many other things.
Totally unacceptable and he thinks I am going to agree to it.
Well he found out I am not and his L did too.
SO now we have to renegotiate somethings and he is going to find out just how strong I am and how much I can endure. I will not back down at all and he will pay and she will have him poor. Just like I did when we got married and he was in medschool and I supported him. He seems to have forgotten those days.

yes I am upset but right now I feel it is the only way I can keep the pain from consuming me.

sorry