Haphazard, we've done this. One of the counselors recommended that we be intimate w/out having intercourse. So, we would give massages w/ no sex (even bj or hj), just getting to know eachother's bodies. Then we gradually moved on to hj, bj, mutual masterbation, and this worked too. We did that for a while, then as soon as it came to sex, it was done. Back to "normal".
Hopefully you found a new counselor!!!!
Kellie ------ Me - 27 H - 31 S - born 8/18/2007 Married - 4/24/2005 Together - 7/03/2002
