Thanks amd, I'll see what they advise for yoga. My foot sure has flared up again and I am icing it.

I don't know if I can push him off the fence no matter how hard I try unless I would take legal action. I don't want to do that. I do know that this is a long way from the M I want to have, but I also know this a long way from where H was last year, and the year before, and the year before that.
I feel like he is taking steps in a good direction but he's just going a whole lot slower than I wish and any backslide is twice as hard as it ever was. Do I drum up more patience and keep waiting for him to emerge? there sure is plenty for me to work on yet before cutting myself loose from him and I don't think he is as detrimental as he was. Most days I feel like he is trying in his own way.
I have to get more of my thoughts together. The list I gave him is still where I left it, he hasn't touched it.
What do you think about what I said about showing love in HIS way?

How was your weekend? are you making plans for spring break yet?


Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.