SH, you are a strong person. I am glad you are recovering quickly this time. You are detaching. It may feel scary that you are feeling more detached. I know sometimes I feel scared, "Why am I feeling detached already? Does that mean I don't love him anymore? Do I want to be like this?" I cannot give you advise on this as I know I don't detach enough. But some here have done a great job in detaching. I know you can do it, one day at a time.

Take care