Hi Fyreman238 - sorry you have to be here. It sounds like clear MLC (empty nest syndrome). I am in a very similar sitch.

This is very painful, but you have found a great place. I always feel more calm after I come here. Read as much as you can and stay busy. This is no fun.

Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM