All Hope is lost/Help - Part 2

[seekpeaceofmind]

Hope you and kids don't catch the bug, if that's what your H has. . . It's great that you were able to have so many positive interactions and it seems to be good DB to back off for a bit.

I'm beginning to think it's the norm for men to be working long hours

It's hard to know why, though - avoidance, satisfacation, ego, success, fear, unreasonable demands? I think with my H the reasons shifted and I definitely thought he was working more than necessary to avoid home in the last months together. I work hard and usually overtime, but I have always wanted to put the rest of my life first. I hate it when the job takes over - and I don't even have kids to tend to.