Well, he says she is a complete lesbian and he always just thought of her as one of the guys. I just really hate secrets.
On the bright side, I didn't have to give H a call today to see what he was up to...he just called me. He was asking when I could go out for dinner. My schedule is weird at work this week so he wanted to make sure I would be able to go if he made plans. He asked how long it would take me to get home and get ready. He said I would need to dress up...his words were "shirt and tie nice". I am thinking he made reservations somewhere because when I said I could go tomorrow he said let me call you right back. A few minutes later he called back and said we were all set. I am pretty excited about this and it seems he is putting some effort into it.
I told him I was going to work out tonight and asked him if he wanted to join me and he said yes. I guess that was one of the rituals that we had...so I am excited about him going with me. Not sure why I like working out with him so much, but I do.
Things are looking up today...I think we had quite a few baby steps the past couple of days.
