PS: jar, thanks for the offer to 'clean up' some trash in Ohio. I am thinking H will take the girls with him, I can't take those days off. That will be fine with me (other than missing them to death SOB). Chances are, he'll head to The Flats one night with his brothers....you could ambush him there. He would never know what hit him.
I've never been to the Flats... I may have to make a run up there. I do have some customers I need to "visit" up there.
I apologize to all for being scarce the last few days. Not much has changed with my sitch and I'm frankly tired of dealing with it. W and I had a good conversation about how stressed she is and what she's doing wrong. I listened, gave her some ideas (always the fixer) and left it at that.
Sunday was a B-day party for one of D5's friends. W made several comments and reminders about her meeting us there. Well.. she had her Xmas party Friday night and went out with one of her old (and one she didn't like) friends Saturday night. She texted that she had too much homework and wouldn't make it. Later when she called to talk to the D's, she was still with friend over at OM's house and again commented about having too much homework. I replied "yeah right" and as I handed the phone off to the D's, I could hear her and her friend laughing like 21 year olds.
Too much drama, too much immaturity for me. She's even starting to look haggard. She's getting crow's feet and she's only 26.
I reminded her that we need to figure out the separation agreement. She didn't like that.
Today we talked.. I've kept our conversations/meetings short and sweet. Not being mean, just not hanging around for her either. She asked me this morning if I was mad at her.. said I looked good.. she always kisses my ass when she thinks I'm mad at her.
She asked what was wrong with me.. if I was mad at her. I told her I wasn't, but I didn't understand what the deal was. I told her I don't think it's fair that I continue to pay the bills while she does whatever it is she's doing. We talked about other things.. mostly her (she is sooooo needy) and she was very good at changing subject. When I could get her back on, she had to go. She had to meet "somebody" and she was there. Maybe we'd talk more this evening.
Had D's dance class this evening and she dodged me the whole time. We talked a little.. I caught her checking me out from time to time.. She didn't stay for the whole thing... too much homework and when she left I said "No talk?" and said "whatever" and walked away.
This is the sum of us.. she runs from everything.. why would this be any different.
So.. sad to say I think she's stuck and is too afraid to do anything. I've exhausted my options and I'm starting to enjoy my freedoms. The only pains that still exist are 1. When the D's have cows about us not being together and 2. I still get a little worked up when I'm around W.
I don't get out of calif. Much in fact the farthest away I have ever been was to Arizona.
Heck I was born 20 miles from where I live....
I have lived a shelterd life...... This is why this vegas trip by myself is big for me. I have NEVER been that far away that long by myself....It’s like when ya move out of your parent house for me.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Ah yes status quo....Well, at least with all this time passing, you are getting stronger, more independent and making yourself happy. In turn you are an even more amazing Daddy. By the way, my normally young looking H looks about 100 yrs old these days. I have many times said "It must be exhausting to be a MLC/WAS" and they are proof.
By the way, my normally young looking H looks about 100 yrs old these days. I have many times said "It must be exhausting to be a MLC/WAS" and they are proof.
This is sooo true....two years ago we went though 12 diferant lay offs at work... I made it through all of them... but I have seen some of the people that didn't and aftr a while they actualy started looking younger.... the streaa from these lay offs were really getting to people... I wanted it becasue you got a nice "package" 1/2 years pay.... vegas baby......
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
