HB2 H didn't take you with him for 3 reasons IMHO:

1) If he took you he would automatically assume that would mean taking the kids as well. This brings more financial burden and takes them into a situation that no parent wants to expose their children to.

2) In his brain you are not currently in his world. OW is. That is a hard fact but fact it is. However do you really want to be in his current world? I suspect not.

3) Taking you would bring back memories of times you have been there together in the past. Better times both for you as a couple and also for his poor sister. It's a known fact on these BB that MLCers cannot handle memories.

You may not realise it but you are exhibiting pursuing behaviours. STOP them RIGHT NOW you know it doesn't get you anywhere.

Sorry to be brutal but sometimes that is what we need to see the wood before the trees.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15