Better late than never?

[MichelleLT]

Yeah, that that's not good enough or it's too little too late totally sucks. I've gotten those too. Unfortunately, you can't change the past, so that's all you can do other than make the future better. She is lashing out - that's all it is. Try not to take it personally (I know it's hard though). The more she feels heard and validated, the less she will lash out as time goes on.