Long story short. Wife left August 2006. Came back February 2007. She decided again in November that she was going to leave. The first time she left, there was OM in picture. Second time, she said she never got over him and couldn't be with me. She told me after Christmas that she moving out in February. I went dark. Not initiating conversation with her, just let her do all the initiating. She pointed out a few times that she realizes I am not talking to her. I said I am just moving on.
Then two weeks ago, she informs me that she is quitting her job and will not be moving out. I said I am sorry to hear that and said nothing else. She says nothing else about it. She didn't quit her job, but she hasn't said anything else about moving out. She did tell S6 that she couldn't afford to move, but nothing to me.
Now, lately she has been initiating conversations with me. Just general topics and being nice. I still consider myself dark and I don't know if I should come out of it, and if I decide to come out of it, how do I do it? Why is she talking to me all of a sudden? Should I even be concerned about why? Do I stay dark and watch for a little while longer?
