I just want to make it better. . .

[Evie]

Seek,

Don't beat yourself up about it. You said what you felt had to be said. He may back off for a while while he digests what you have said. He may come back at you in a week, a month or a few months and repeat some of what you said but making it sound like it was his idea. I know my H listens more than I thought he was doing and has asked for clarity some time later. You offered another option.

On the plus side, he asked to see you, and he never mentioned the D word - he may not have mentioned it at all.

Maybe he hasn't had enough time alone yet to think about what he really wants?

I know it's so hard, I feel exactly as you do. I have good days then very low days. I like what you said about the Meds and excercise LOL, it made me think that i need to get to the gym more - maybe we can become online gym buddies....

((((SPOM)))))

X Dis