Sounds like your H is relaxing into a bachelor style existance at his house. I wonder how he will feel about things a few months down the line, if he still has a house full of twentysomething males. I can see the life might be attractive for a short time, but perhaps not long term? I mean, he's not 20 anymore?
Still he sounds a bit more realistic about what's going on in his head. Not sure about the merits of the holiday though.
Max
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