H droppef off d3 this afternoon. We chattecd for a while, like friends.

I don't want to be friends. I want him to realize, or at least validate, our marriage was worth something. i feel DBing is helping ME get "over" him (if there really is such a thing), but I feel like it's an easy way out for him. He gets to walk away easier, it seems like. We don't talk about our marriage, or our relationship or problems or anything. He comes by, i'm in a good mood, we chit chat and he leaves to go live his responsibility-free life with OW. I'm stuck with all of the household responsibilities.

Bath, you bring up a good point. He doesn't meet my mature needs. But I feel like he could. He just doesn't want to.


*dated at age 12- 15 (me) and age 13-16 (him)
*reunited at age 19 (me) and age 20 (him)
*me 23, H 25
*married 3 1/2 years, 1 d
*dropped ILYBINILWY bomb on 12/19/07
*moved out same day, PA with OW confirmed