lwb - Please don't take my analogy the wrong way. Of course they are the bigger ass, but after so long it makes you wonder.
SallyM hit it right on the head.. you've put up with so much, a separation (physically) could be a world of difference for you both.
That's a bummer you won't be heading to Ohio soon.. could've had Mark and I take care of some trash!
Seriously.. line up some good "girl" time while they are gone. Talk about making a man wonder! (H that is.. OK.. all males will be picturing PJ pillow fights!)
As for him still making the "I can't stand to see you with anyone else" that's a whole other ball of wax. My W still freaks when she thinks I'm seeing someone, yet she has no interest in talking to me (other than to gripe about her life) or working things out. Not sure why they do this... Oh well.. their loss.
