lwb, you will be okay. you will not only survive, you will thrive, if you do indeed end up divorced. spend some time on the "surviving the big d" board. seriosly, those folks inspire me. they give me hope that things will not only be okay, but they will be GOOD again.
no, this is not what you want. none of this is. this is not what you deserve. but the one thing I know is you will be okay. you will.
and lwb, if you separate, you will not be watching him date. the silver lining is that will be behind you, because honey, you already have. you know the pain of watching him actually go out and meet ow. that will NOT be on your plate any more, if he is gone. at the same time, it doesn't mean you have to file right away. do it if it feels right to you, you are ready for it, but don't do it in haste. hell, make him step up and do it, this is his ball game after all.
take control of lwb. release your inner fabulousness. because honey, he has trampled it for too long. I will NOT sit back and watch you doubt yourself at all, because you are one of the most caring, loving, wonderful, strong, able bodied women I have ever had the luck to know, even if its only thru cyberspace.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
