I don;t give "excuses", but I don't want to do things that aren't me, and frankly, some things offered may be right for others, just not me. that is why Iam aling for all suggestions. I can get ideas, and then sift thrtough to see what feels right for me. I want to be true to myself - is there any other way to be? If I am uncomfortable doing something - NOT because I am araid of a reaction - why would I do it? I have to take care of me, no one else is.....
To thine own self be true.
Perhaps being true to yourself is what is causing him to stay away.
It is hypothetical anyway.
A person should only change things in themselves they wish to improve. Not change to accomodate someone else. What quicker way to become disillusioned with someone.
6 months is a long time. I was hoping your Christmas present would facilitate some sort of contact. Sorry it did not.
Calling him from an unlisted number...not a good idea.
Going to his work...might give you an answer you need, to determine what you do next.
I hope you find the support you need somewhere in your life WL.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 01/28/0807:31 PM.
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