You are right...I will need to see consistency in his behavior and stay detached myself....like walking a tightrope almost...I just don't want to find myself in position where I feel devastated or hopeless again...I'm trying to be positive and upbeat about this...but I'm also being very cautious!
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Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally