Ingrid:

You are right...I will need to see consistency in his behavior and stay detached myself....like walking a tightrope almost...I just don't want to find myself in position where I feel devastated or hopeless again...I'm trying to be positive and upbeat about this...but I'm also being very cautious!

BA


Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally