You are now at the first half mile mark of of a 26 mile marathon.
Pace yourself.
--Theoden
Thanks for putting everything in perspective! H did come home last night and didn't see the OW all day yesterday! He is home today sick with a cold. I encouraged him to sleep in our old bed we used to share (now just mine) as he sleeps upstairs in an old twin bed with no mattress just a pad and it's cold upstairs and it would be so much more comfortable. H said he was thinking about it, but he chickened out and is sleeping upstairs. I'm sure he thought it would give me the wrong message if he did that!!!
Should I be careful not to baby him much with the cold and keep careful to DB today? Just do my own thing and leave him alone to nurse his cold by himself? Or should I be friendly tonight and nurse him a little? What is your best advice? Karen43