ST - yeah, I finally learned that one about stressing during the party so much I don't enjoy it! I now give myself permission to stress up until 1 hour before - then, just let it all go and have fun! Amazing how much more enjoyable parties are that way.
I finally talked to the organizer about the creepy guy.. told her basically I hate to be like this and this guy may be completely harmless but he's been very pushy and I'm nervous about him having my address. Asked her to either drop him from the "yes" list (which would prevent him from getting any event notices), or "skip" him on the email with the address/directions. Luckily for me, she is in the middle of helping a friend deal with a stalker situation that started pretty innocently and got out of hand - so she was VERY understanding and told me it's much better to be cautious than in court filing restraining orders! (which is where she was last week). Made me feel a little better and not like I am totally over-reacting, so that was cool.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
