Geez.. It seems like things are falling apart all over the place.
I guess we just eventually come to the realization that our H's won't or can't change. At least not right now. And, maybe we have just gotten to the point where WE know we deserve better and can't live like this anymore either.
NC, I too hurt for you. You are also not deserving of what you are going through.
All we can do is do what is right for us and our children. That way we won't have regrets. I don't think our spouses will be able to have a clear consience when it is all said and done.
You are right there must be a full moon or something going on. It seems like many our situations on here have taken a turn for the worse. I hate it for everyone and my heart goes out to all of you.
Hugs to all,
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
sorry to hear the B has her tentacles in him again. At least you know the truth. It is better to know than to not know. You will be happier in the long run. I feel certain of that.
Sara, You are right, I needed to know. He is one mixed up man. I don't see how you can be with your wife one weekend and then just a few days later you are going to OW's house. It doesn't say much for his character. I think he and OW deserve each other.
It's time for me to take full control of my life. I feel like I have been moving in that direction for some time now, but this just gives me that extra boost.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Im so very sorry ((hugs))... I wish there was something I could say or do to make you feel better. But I think it is better you know the truth instead of him continuing to play both sides.
Im thinking of you..
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
TAL, Thanks for the hugs. They say the truth will set you free. I've known all along that he was playing us both, but seeing it with my own eyes, really opened them.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I know, it just doesn't make it hurt any less... There is definately something going on with the moon..even though there won't be a full moon until the 6th of feb..
You are such a wonderful person, I hope you do find someone that will be worthy of you.
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
I say "Seasonal Affective disorder " SAD, it happens in the winter and for depressed, screwed up people it can break you. And boy are they screwed up !!!!!!!
Just one way to look at all their craziness.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
