Thanks for the input. My paraphrasing was poor on that point. Basically he stated that she is craving attention, from me, or from anyone. Since she feels I won't give it she is seeking it from other men. He was merely stating that she wants me to give her some attention, she is looking for something from me besides the LRT or going dark. He thinks a little pursueing may be in order just so that she knows what I want. His idea was to send just a nice text message each day saying something positive with a hello.