"I want H to at least call and hear my voice" A better idea may be to state what you want and say "I would prefer if we spoke as it makes for much clearer communication " If he doesn't want to , he doesn't want to! But, why do you want this anyway? Is it for clearer communication or because you feel hurt that he doesn't want to talk to you so you're gonna make him? That's called revenge. So, don't force things unless there is a legimtimate reason for doing so.
