Well, I was doing well today so far; Not talking to W, keeping busy. W then IM'd me to let me know she is being sued for some credit card she owes $7k on and wanted to know if she can use the law firm I use for stuff - I told her sure, but she doesn't have any cash for a retainer... I really don't want to bail her own right now by paying for it.
Not the first time this has happened - She went through something similar right after she moved out, and they garnished her paycheck for a month or two. No idea why she didn't take care of all of this when she got her 401k loan, but whatever...
Any suggestions how to deal with this one? I'm all for offering her constructive advice and helping her, but I don't want to end up just caving in and digging her out of the hole.
I still have no clue why she decided to come to me with this new problem - I'm sure she won't tell OM to avoid looking bad, but she's usually pretty resourceful and can figure things out on her own. Guess it's not really my problem though.