one word... asprin.... BEFORE YOU GO TO BED IT A BIG GLASS OF WATER..... Now if thing last night would have takena differant path I may have been nursing regrets...... but I listened to the good little voice in my head.......
I will write ya later.
H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Man, I wish the phone guy would get here...our lines have been down now for a day and he is comming today but.. everybody is in bed yet so I have to hang around and wait for him... Does he not know I have things to do, places to be, girls to meet?????
Dr Love........
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Oh, well, had too much fun already last night at Monster Jam with my two S's. (Never been before. The boys had a blast.)
Sara, I miss New Orleans! When I was in college, I would visit at least once a semester. Haven't been back since '92 (with the W). I want some King Cake. And some beignets. And some crawfish. And some softshell crab. And some barbeque shrimp. And some... of everything. LOL. Wish I wasn't watching my diet.
(I'd hit Pat O's, The Gumbo Shop, the Little Napolean Fish House, Cafe Du Monde -- yeah, they're done to death, but its been so looong.)
I've only been here a couple of days, but so far I've eaten at the Camilla Grill, Casamento's and Muriel's, and beignets and coffee at both Cafe du Monde and Morning Call. Things slowed down once my daughter got sick. But we've still been getting around. Made the mistake of trying to go to Lakeside Mall today, only to find that the mall was closed and the entire parking lot was taken up by people going to the Metairie parade. A rookie mistake, but we're out of practice. I'll save you a piece of king cake. We apartment hunted a bit today and found that some flood damaged houses are now renovated and going back into the housing pool. Next year she will be able to find something with central air and heat. Whoa! that will be living! We shorted out her circuits last night with the space heaters I bought!
I think it is time for me to go through with the divorce.
Some of you know my story and some of you don't so I will give a brief recap. My H told me in Oct. 2006 that he wasn't happy and wanted out. He moved out the next day. There was no warning. He of course denied that there was OW. Well, of course there was. I found out in Dec. that he was involved with his married secretary. Come to find out she left her husband the same time that H left me. She served her H with divorce papers a week after they split. They were divorced in July '07. My H didn't serve me with papers until June '07.
I have been very guilty of letting him be a fence sitter. I kept allowing him to come around because I thought he would want to come home. He would say he wanted to work it out and then he would say he just couldn't do it because it didn't feel right. Sadly, I allowed this to happen several times.
A week before Christmas he told me he wanted to work things out. He was even making plans for the future. We even went car shopping for me! He told OW that we were getting back together and she said she couldn't work for him anymore. This is what I had hoped for all the time. Two days after Christmas, he told me he wanted to proceed with divorce. I just said okay, and didn't try to talk him out of it. Just a week later he was coming around again. Yes, I was weak and I let him. We went out to dinner with friends and we discussed going to a formal ball togther. That was on a Friday night. I did not hear from him the remainder of the weekend.
On Tuesday night our DD16 cheered at a basketball game and he came to that. He was very aloof. I have not heard from him since then.
I know that everyone says you shouldn't spy, but I did last night. He has told me that he wasn't seeing OW anymore, and I just had to know. I drove by her house and his truck was there.
It was exactly what I needed. It showed me that he is still attached to her. All of these months he has flip-flopped between the two of us. I have tried my best, but he has shown me the type of man he is, and it is not the type of man I want in my life.
Last edited by Yoyowife; 01/28/0804:15 PM.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I'm sorry Yoyo. I know exactly how you feel. This is exactly what happened to me. There comes a point when you just have to say enough is enough. You fought a long, hard battle with your dignity and integrity intact, but sometimes it's just not enought.
What's your email address? I would like to send you one.
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