My H behaved similarly and I felt much the same way "Screw you! You should feel uncomfortable" But that attitude helps nothing. We save the really difficult topics for counseling. But I have this currosity about every little detail and he has been really good about answering me truthfully. The key is to not catch him off guard and constantly throw the questions at him out of the blue. If I do that it tends to effect the mood of our day. A few times a week we set aside time to discuss it, we didnt schedule a specific time because he is a worrier and would be nervous anticipating our talk. If I feel the need to ask something I bite my toung and save it for our "talk sessions" Now if HE brings it up, we usually joke about it, I refer to him as my 'wanderer'. Its not a funny matter but for us humor helps us get through this.
We all find our own path, though our journeys are similar.
Tempest
(Had to edit my spelling! Again! What else did I spell wrong?)
[This message has been edited by Tempest (edited 04-26-99).]
