I don;t give "excuses", but I don't want to do things that aren't me, and frankly, some things offered may be right for others, just not me. that is why Iam aling for all suggestions. I can get ideas, and then sift thrtough to see what feels right for me. I want to be true to myself - is there any other way to be? If I am uncomfortable doing something - NOT because I am araid of a reaction - why would I do it? I have to take care of me, no one else is.....
