(((LWB))) just stopping by to offer hugs. I know this is difficult. My H came and left for a solid 18 months before he figured it out. I think the more he can see the changes in you now, of how you will be when the D is final, the more he will see what he is doing. Splitting your accounts is a great place to begin.

I know you've done so much already with giving him room, etc. Can you take some time off of work, take the girls out of school, and go somewhere - even for a long weekend? Let him get a real feel for living in the house alone?

Hugs,
Em

Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

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