need advice - think he's going to ask for D today

[seekpeaceofmind]

Now I've gone from anxiety to dread. H called this a.m. and said he thought we could meet just the two of us face-to-face without MC. He said that he isn't going to work today. (MC appt wasn't until late afternoon.) It's very unusual for H to miss work - altho he has lately due to illness. He also mentioned that he hasn't been sleeping well. We haven't seen each other for 3 weeks and he is big on conflict avoidance, so I'm prepared for the worst. I think he wants to tell me that he has decided to go for D. We are going to meet at 1:00 at our home. I'm really unsure how to handle myself. I know that I want to tell him that I still think our M is worth saving, but I've read some stuff on here that suggests I should tell him I accept his decision.