Hmm..good point, (sorry to hijack this thread!)..my BF seems very depressed and dealing with alot of issues to do with his past, but he denies being depressed (well he did when he ended it with me in Nov). I was thinking of trying to be a friend for him and see how he is, but the general advice is DONT CONTACT them ! So I really dont know what to think. He too doesnt seem to have an OW, not at all from what I can see. I may be wrong, but he just looks too terrible and not at all happy. Just struggling with knowing whether to contact him, or not...
