All Hope is lost/Help - Part 2

[Evie]

Thanks Seek.

Had a good weekend. H bought S1 home from an activity on Friday evening and he came in to talk about the business. Business over we carried on talking for an hour, just catching up on all the weeks news. When he left he said 'may see you at the gym tomorrow'? Meaning, if I was taking the boys for a swim we would probably see him. Anyway, I decided to txted him later and ask him if he was just saying in passing that he would be at the gym or would he like to meet up with the boys for a swim? He replied 'he had said it in passing but if we could meet up it would be great, if not.....' I decided to take the iniative and go, we had a lovely hour playing in the water for an hour.

Later I had a text from H, saying he would be late to pick up S2 on Sunday as he had to be some where. I decided to try and set a boundary and said I didn't mind as a one off, b/c i liked to be focused on work, it wld be hard to concentrate on work while watching a 3 yr old on the poolside and asked him why he would be late (wrong I know, but I wanted to see if he would tell me, I had a feeling he was looking at a new flat) He replied that he was looking at a new flat as his current place is too small and the early start and teh drive across in teh morning was killing him, he also said he wasn't scoring points but he had to work on the poolside with sons blah blah blah

Must go for now.... will continue in a short while