lwb - UGH!!! It's like we are Charlie Brown and our spouses are Lucy. We keep lining back up to kick the football only to have them yank it away from us!
Makes you wonder sometimes who the bigger ass is... Charlie for continuing to line up and trust Lucy, or Lucy for pulling the ball every single time. BTDT got a closet full of T-shirts.
Sounds like H and my W live in the same Fantasy Island with littl Tattoo running around "Attention.. Attention boss". They are empty, shallow bottomless pits of need.
Sorry to rant... I know it's hard right now, but pull back and focus on you and the D's. Pull the 180, whatever that may be on him. If he would expect you to stay out, come home or take the D's out. You know the drill.
You are 1000 times stronger now than when this began, and you will do well whichever way this falls.
