Hi Lanzo, she has said that we can exchange cards, but no big gifts this year. We should save the money for the baby. So just go for a day out. Difficult to think what to write in the card. Something to do with the immediate present I guess, along the lines of.. lets have a great day togehter. As opposed to talking about the future... I am sure we will love each other again and be together for ever! Maybe no hey!

Hi Blackgoat, we will always remain friends, even though she is talking about separation, she still says I am her best friend. New baby is due in September so only 2 months in. We takled about the fact that our marriage as is seems to be dead, so we should move on to a new realtionship. Start as friends again and see where it takes us. Possibly away from each other, but I am hopeful that it will take us into a new romance. Is that what you mean by NEW marriage?

Thanks again

DB book arrived this morning. Better get reading

Steve

Me 27
W 30
M 2yrs/ T 5yrs
Expecting our first child Sept 08
warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08
I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08
Living together.