Well, It's 1 year today since the bomb. More importantly, as of today W is able to file for D (Canadian law says you have to wait 1 year). I'm pretty uneasy today thinking about what W will do. I know it means nothing in the long term but I can't seem to help worrying about it.

When I picked up the kids on Sunday W was wearing a new ring on her ring finger and she had moved the ring she was wearing there over to another finger. I have no idea what that means, it was an ugly ring though with a black stone in the centre and some small diamonds around it. OW was also there when I picked up the kids. W is getting a little more bold about that. I didn't actually see her, but she was one room away and W went in to that room and said something to her and she answered.

At 1 year in I am still fully confident that our marriage will be restored. I am more confident than this day last year. I can also see changes in myself so that is a good thing. I am a little worried about how bad things will have to get before it happens though. However maybe that is just my uneasiness of today talking because really our R is gradually getting better.


M35 W37
S9 D6
M12 yrs Know 15 yrs
Bomb 1/28/07
My Sitch
Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford